I think that it's entirely possible that Husband and I have succumbed to some sort of infectious...something. I blame Oldest, Middle, and Youngest. Two teens and a pre-teen.
For the most part, The Three are easy-going, polite, and even-keeled. In fact, they are a lot of fun. But they are also victims. They have been unable to completely escape the grasp of hormones and random moodiness and the occasional bout of surly almost-but-not-quite-over-the-line bad attitude. Thankfully it's not frequent or even even common.
But I'm afraid it might be catching.
I came home to find Husband in a funk. He couldn't quite put his finger on why, but he was definitely not himself. He was quiet and almost withdrawn. He couldn't make a decision and wasn't really interested in being cajoled out of whatever state he was in.
And now I find myself sitting here, sighing. Not quiet, relaxed sighing. Nope; the over the top, I-can't-believe-I-have-so-much-to-do, why-me kind of sighs. You know the one. Especially if you have a teenaged daughter.
So Husband and I find ourselves pondering what on earth is happening to us. The Three did not come with a manual, and up to this point, we feel that our on the job training has gone fairly well, with only a few bumps along the way. But no one told us that the moods and feelings and angst of adolescence might be catching.
That 'come without a manual thing' very true. And teens is the time we need it! we have two teens and a 12 year old at the moment. Laughter at the ridiculous is often helpful - frequently facilitated by trendy knock knock jokes.
ReplyDeleteI guess parenting goes both ways! You rub off on them and perhaps they return the favor. Here's to hoping the funk has passed tomorrow!
ReplyDeleteHang on...it's a ride and I'm sure there's a curve up ahead. Maybe Saturday will be magical. :)
ReplyDeleteSorry for your 'sighs'. I've been there in the past & sometimes I just ignored the behavior so that at least in my eyes it wasn't there. It was hard to change immediately anyway, so better to go on about your business & hope a new day is a 'new day'.
ReplyDeleteI find it so difficult to write when I am in this sort of funk. You are a writing queen for tackling it head on! You even came up with a humorous angle: adolescence might be catching. I love it!
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